This is why I don't do much tabletop RPG gaming. That would drive me nuts.
to be fair, they're using a system that's complicated on the combat rules, and they're all, like, level 15 so they have a zillion multipliers for each action, and there's 10 or so people in the game and their GM likes combat and I know not all games are like that and tehir primary reason for playing is to hang out with each other but still.
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